An employee told me she's pregnant. What should I do next?

By · Updated July 6, 2026 · 7 min read

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An employee just told you she is pregnant. Maybe she caught you between meetings, or sent a nervous email, or asked to "talk for a minute." If your first reaction was a warm congratulations followed by a quiet "wait, what am I actually supposed to do now?", you are exactly who this guide is for.

The good news: you do not need to have all the answers today. Massachusetts gives you months of runway before anything real has to happen, and most of the heavy lifting around pay is handled by the state, not by you. What you do need is a calm, correct first response and a rough map of what comes next. That is what this guide gives you.

Short version: congratulate her and reassure her that her job is safe, then send her the required written notice of her rights within 10 days if you have six or more employees. After that, plan calmly over the coming months, and remember that the state pays for her leave, not you.

First, the only thing you have to get right today

When an employee tells you she is pregnant, your job in that moment is simple: be human, and do not overreact.

Congratulate her. Tell her you are glad she felt comfortable sharing the news. Then reassure her that her job is safe and that you will work out the details together over the coming months. That is genuinely all that is required on day one.

Just as important is what not to do. Do not start asking about her medical situation, her due date, or her plans to return unless she brings it up. Do not make comments, even well-meaning ones, about whether the role is a good fit for a new parent, whether she will want to come back, or how her leave might affect the team. Comments like these are how good employers accidentally create legal problems. Treat this exactly as you would any other significant life event an employee shared with you: with support, and without prying.

If you manage other people, resist the urge to tell them. It is her news to share, on her timeline.

What Massachusetts actually requires of you

Three laws typically come into play when an employee is pregnant. You do not need to memorize them, but it helps to know they exist and roughly what each one does.

Paid Family and Medical Leave (PFML) is the big one, and it covers nearly every Massachusetts employer regardless of size. It gives your employee paid, job-protected leave funded by the state. A birthing employee can qualify for up to 20 weeks of medical leave for pregnancy and recovery, plus up to 12 weeks of bonding leave, capped at 26 weeks combined in a benefit year. The money comes from the state, not from your payroll. In 2026 the maximum benefit is $1,230.39 per week, and there is a seven-day unpaid waiting period at the start of most leaves.

The Pregnant Workers Fairness Act applies to employers with six or more employees. It requires you to reasonably accommodate pregnancy-related needs through a good-faith, back-and-forth conversation, and it requires you to give her written notice of her rights within 10 days of learning she is pregnant. Accommodations can be small: a stool to sit on, extra breaks, a temporary pause on heavy lifting. You cannot demand a doctor's note for the most common ones.

The Massachusetts Parental Leave Act also applies at six or more employees and provides eight weeks of job-protected parental leave. In practice, PFML now does most of the work here because it adds pay on top of job protection, but the older law still sits in the background.

If you have five or fewer employees, PFML still applies to you, but the other two laws do not yet. For most of this guide, assume PFML is your main obligation. If you are close to that threshold, the full breakdown by employer size shows exactly which laws kick in at which headcount.

The written notice you owe her (and how to handle it)

This is the one concrete task with a clock on it. If you have six or more employees, the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act requires written notice of pregnancy-related rights within 10 days of her telling you.

The simplest way to satisfy this is to hand her the Massachusetts Commission Against Discrimination's guidance on the Act, which the state has said employers may use to meet the notice requirement. Keep a copy in your onboarding materials and your handbook so you are covered for new hires too. Send it by email so you have a record of the date.

That is it. One document, one email, done inside 10 days.

A calm timeline from "I'm pregnant" to "welcome back"

Here is the shape of the whole thing, so you can see there is no fire to put out today.

WhenWhat you do
The day she tells youCongratulate her. Reassure her the job is safe. Say nothing about her medical details or plans.
Within 10 daysIf you have 6+ employees, send written notice of her rights under the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act.
Ongoing, as neededIf she requests an accommodation, start a good-faith conversation and find something workable.
~60 days before her due dateHave a relaxed planning conversation: rough leave dates, how she wants to apply for PFML, coverage for her role.
~30 days before leaveShe applies for PFML directly with the state. You may receive a notice to review and respond to.
The week leave startsSeven-day unpaid waiting period begins. Keep her health insurance active on the same terms.
During leaveHold her role. Keep team communication minimal and respectful. Do not ask her to work.
Before she returnsConfirm her return date and plan a smooth re-entry to the same or an equivalent role.

Notice how little of this lands on you in the early months. The busiest stretch is a short planning window a couple of months before leave, and even then the employee drives the PFML application herself.

Your quiet checklist for the next few months

You do not need to do these all at once. Work down the list as the pregnancy progresses.

  • Respond to her news with support, and keep it confidential.
  • Send the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act notice within 10 days (if you have 6+ employees).
  • Handle any accommodation requests through a simple, good-faith conversation.
  • Around two months out, have a friendly planning chat about leave dates and coverage.
  • Point her to the state's PFML application; remember she files it, not you.
  • Watch for any DFML notice about her claim and respond within the deadline stated on it.
  • Keep her health insurance running on the same terms during leave.
  • Protect her role and plan coverage so the team is not scrambling.
  • Prepare a warm, organized return so she can step back in without friction.

If you are staring at this list feeling like you are doing all of it for the first time, that is normal. Most small Massachusetts employers only navigate their first employee taking leave once they have already done it wrong once. You have the advantage of a map.

The mistakes that actually get employers in trouble

Almost none of the trouble here comes from the leave itself. It comes from three avoidable things.

The first is talking too much. Speculating about her commitment, her childcare, or whether she will return is the fastest way to turn a happy announcement into a discrimination claim. Keep your comments to congratulations and logistics.

The second is treating her differently. Pulling her off a big project "to be helpful," passing her over for something she earned, or managing her more harshly after the news are all read as pregnancy discrimination, even when your intentions are kind. Treat her exactly as you did the week before she told you.

The third is missing the accommodation conversation. When she asks for something reasonable, engage with it. Saying no reflexively, or demanding a doctor's note you are not entitled to ask for, is where good employers slip. For the full picture of what you are responsible for start to finish, see the Massachusetts PFML employer responsibilities guide, and to see exactly when each obligation lands, the Massachusetts PFML timeline for employers lays it out step by step.

What to hold onto

An employee telling you she is pregnant is not a problem to manage. It is a normal part of running a business with people in it, and Massachusetts has built a system that carries most of the financial weight for you. Your part is smaller than it feels right now: respond with warmth, send one notice, plan coverage calmly, and protect her job. Do those, and you will have handled this the way the best employers do.

This guide explains the practical steps, not legal advice for your specific situation. Every business is a little different, and the details of one employee's leave can turn on facts we cannot see from here.

Frequently asked questions

Do I have to pay a pregnant employee during her leave in Massachusetts?
No. Paid Family and Medical Leave benefits are paid by the state, not by you. The employee applies to the Department of Family and Medical Leave, and the state pays her a weekly benefit. You are not required to pay her wages during PFML, though you may choose to top up the difference if you want to.
How much leave can a pregnant employee take in Massachusetts?
Through PFML, a birthing employee can qualify for up to 20 weeks of medical leave for pregnancy and recovery plus up to 12 weeks of bonding leave, capped at 26 weeks combined in a single benefit year. Many employees take less. The exact amount depends on her medical situation and how much bonding time she uses.
What do I have to give her when she tells me she is pregnant?
If you have six or more employees, the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act requires you to give her written notice of her rights within 10 days of learning about the pregnancy. You should also point her toward information about applying for Paid Family and Medical Leave when the time comes.
Can I ask for a doctor's note about the pregnancy?
You can ask for documentation for some accommodation requests, but not all. Under the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act you cannot require documentation for common accommodations like more frequent restroom, food, or water breaks, seating, or limits on lifting more than 20 pounds. Do not ask for medical details you do not need.
Do I have to hold her job open?
Yes. Leave taken under Paid Family and Medical Leave is job-protected, and you must continue her health insurance on the same terms during leave. When she returns she is generally entitled to the same or an equivalent position with the same pay, benefits, and seniority.
My business only has five employees. Do these rules apply to me?
Some do and some do not. Paid Family and Medical Leave covers nearly all Massachusetts employers regardless of size, so your employee can still receive state benefits and job protection. The Pregnant Workers Fairness Act and the older Massachusetts Parental Leave Act apply only to employers with six or more employees, so at five employees those two laws would not yet apply to you.

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